Ode to என் வீடு
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Ode to என் வீடு

By Caris Gross ‘23, Lady Doak Fellow

Though the resumption of the fellowship to American College has meant there are once again two fellows in Madurai, the LDC fellow still practically works alone at their site. When I first arrived in Madurai, I could barely step outside my apartment without facing what felt like a thousand insurmountable challenges. I had no confidence in my ability to find my way in an unfamiliar city with unfamiliar people, and I certainly couldn’t imagine how this place could become home. 20 months later, I now call Madurai my home without hesitation, not because of my own efforts, but because of the kindness and welcoming nature of each person who has offered me a kind word or an invitation to their house. This story is a tribute to those who have made my two years incredibly special, who have made Madurai feel like என் வீடு – my home.

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My Post-Schedule Life, or; R.I.P. to Google Calendar
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My Post-Schedule Life, or; R.I.P. to Google Calendar

By Caris Gross ‘23, Lady Doak Fellow

I finally arrived in Madurai in early October, towards the end of the first semester at Lady Doak College, when students were winding up for exams and holiday periods. Even after speaking at length with Phoebe, previous fellow to LDC, it was clear there was nothing I could really do to prepare for my role ahead of time. Even so, in the weeks I spent waiting for my delayed visa, I was antsy to just get started. I told myself I would hit the ground running as soon as I arrived in Madurai, which carried me through tearful goodbyes and “see you laters” with friends, family, and my five tiny nieces and nephews.

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